What will we
do without FRIENDS? BLOOD is thicker than water, that’s why I have my family.
But, sometimes I want someone to “hyperventilate” with, and have a good yarn. Who else but a friend will listen to me rambling about my past, present and future without rolling their eyeballs.
"Blah ... blah, and the berries on the other tree are sweeter."
wild and sassy
And occasionally have a 🍒BERRY🍒 good time.
FRIENDS for different times of the Day? My 6.45 am walking partner 🚶♂️. Mary and I are out pounding the streets 6 days a week. Out with the dawn (street lamps are still on) for our 5 km exercise. I have substituted qigong with brisk walking since the lock down was relaxed.
Mary is a walking cookbook. Her "mee siam" (Siamese noodles) is out of this world and her knowledge of meats and the different cuts for different dishes surpasses the butchers'. A real handy friend to have in hand!
Then I have the 3 Scientists (not 3 Stoogers OK!) going on holiday together as Travel Bugs, Kim, Moo Eng and I.
Here we are at Pulau Sembilan, Perak to view the BLUE TEARS - a type of bioluminescence phytoplankton.
We squabble, often without coming to any
consensus. Our present argument is the origin of SARS-CoV-2. I believe it is
from natural recombination, Kim is towards human intervention and has presented
us with a collection of her conspiracy theories. Moo Eng thinks both are
possible so she is our "referee" for the moment.
We can do research for Q1 papers but we
cannot SOS (Save Our Souls) in water. Here are two of us trying to look
"gaya" (have style). But, how to snorkel when we were clinging on to
the float most of the time ... ALAMAK.
We do better on land so here' we are on our hiking trails.
I have Ah Con who always gets me into
scrapes. She took me biking into the paddy fields in Langkawi. It should be
made known that we haven't biked for over 40 years. We were kinda wobbly on the
roads, worse when we cycled into the paddy fields on dirt roads. One minute Ah
Con was in front of me, the next she had cycled right into a ditch. She rolled
right in, lost her glasses in the running irrigation water and looked like a
drown rat.
On another trip, she decided my soul needed some cleansing, so she dragged me on a yoga-meditation
retreat in India for 5 days/4 nights. We had to wake up at 4 am daily, ate
only vegetarian meals and were given only 2 meals a day to cleanse our bodies. I am not sure if my soul was purified, but I know I was
HUNGRY all the time.
Same with Savvy K when she has a bad day at
work. She’ll be yelling for Thory from the gate, and he always rushes out to
pounce on her. Then she will slump on the sofa, legs up and hold his
"hand." She just “chills” as she unloads the day’s disasters, while
her best friend just sits next to her and listens with his paw in hers. Thory
really does listen patiently with offered paw.
Some days,
all we need is a good hug. It does not matter where we are or who is looking.
Just someone
who understands that life can be daunting.
And the best of friends know "Theirs not to question why,
Theirs but to just sit beside you.
When
you're down and troubled
And you need some love and care
And nothing, nothing is going right
Close your eyes and think of me
And soon I will be there
To brighten up even your darkest night
You
just call out my name
And you know wherever I am
I'll come running, running, yeah, yeah, to see you again
Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there, yes, I will
Carole King; From her Tapestry Album 1971, Grammy Award for Song of the
Year
Note: THANKS Lan Boey for the fantastic video of the hornbills, Acknowledgement goes to the naturalist who uploaded the hornbills on UVideo.
Thank you so much.
ReplyDeleteI LOVED the nature shots and videos - and envy you your friends.
Many of mine have moved and I rarely see them.
And yes, we do indeed all need friends. Furry and otherwise.
Lovely dog
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